Hello! Nice to meet you! My name is

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Going throug a recent significant breakup and lots of personal changes. Replies may be slow, but forming new, reliable friendships is important. I am very shy, and struggling to rebuild my social confidence. I apologize in advance if I act like a silly.40/M
Call me Ember
Central Alberta, Canada
English Speaking
He/Him (CIS male)
Shy/Socially Anxious
Pan/Ace (let's get to know each other mkay?)
DM Friendly (but I work full time mornings during the week)
Always listening to music!Avid Console Gamer | Amateur Photographer | Website Dabbler | Tech & Cybersecurity Enthusiast | Professional Rambler | Painfully Shy | Curious About Everything | Likes Being HelpfulSorry, but I do not DM minors.
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Monster energy drinks.
Technology of any kind
Music (EDM / Metal / Ska / VG Soundtracks / LOTS MORE)
Retro console gaming (PS1 / N64)
Portable game emulation (GBA / 3DS / PSP / GameCube)
Console gamer (Almost all of them)
Digital Media Management
Amateur Photography
Personal Growth (Never stop working on yourself)
Fire 🔥
Cyber security
Boardgames/ tabletop games
Cats! (I live with 5, currently)
Video editing (learning the new basics)
Making lasting relationships
Lord of the Rings
Hobby writing (Gonna write that novel someday...)
Event planning
Stargazing (Full moon ++)
Talking too much (shut up, Ember...)
Bluetooth speakers (I've got like, 10)
Dragon's (rawr)
Garlic bread
🐾Paws 🐾
Breakfast
uwu
Furry meets with chill folks
Making new friends
2nd breakfast
World building
Baking things
Learning how to sew again
Studio Ghibli
Anime, in particular
Fallout Games
Awoo?
Hikes/Long walks
Actual conversation
Arc Raiders (addicted RN)
I smoke and vape weed a lot so you're gonna need to be cool with 420. I'm not annoying about it I promise.
Extremely large groups with folks I don't know (let's chat first, Kay?)
Peer pressure
Flakey people
Most cheese (yeah, sorry)
Most organized religion (I am not against religious folks at all, and am happy to talk about it!)
Not respecting boundaries
Sleep, apparently.
High pressure sales. (And I work in sales!)
Racists
Politics. I'm a left leaning guy, I'll put that out there. But I'm not here to change minds. Can we talk about literally anything else instead? Please?
People who "can't take the hint" or who can't "read the room". (If you aren't sure - ask me)
My anxiety. (Sometimes you can't 'just calm down')
I self sabotage for a variety of reasons.
My slow adjustment period getting used to new spaces.
My shyness.
Alcohol. I don't care if you drink. I just don't anymore. (Been there, done that)
I'm clumsy (but I pass it off as cute!)
I'm my own worst enemy.
General depression. (I get sad a lot, sorry).
General low self esteem (working on it).
Can't stand selfishness or entitlement.
If I enjoy your company, sometimes it's hard to get me to shut up...
Oh and fruit filled donuts. Why would you do that?
Can we talk about rasins for a second?
Join My Discord Server!
Embers Den is where I hangout on discord. It's private, but you're welcome to ask to join.If a small furry-focused community that is super chill interests you at all, maybe come on by. Talk about cool music, new movies or shows, or maybe we can play a game or something.Please note that membership is not immediate currently I manually approve new members. I work a full time job but I'm online often. I will do my best to respond to any requests ASAP.There are bigger, more active communities for networking if that's your thing.This is just a safe space for adult furries to share interesting events, have some interesting discussions, or play a game.I stream gameplay there if I'm playing something interesting.